The Optimal Lounge











{March 3, 2007}   Field Report

Went on a date with HB7 that I met through a service. She is the Director of Operations for a Children’s Shelter in Miami and oversees the operations of a large facility. I am continually impressed with the quality of women that I have been introduced to through this company.

My date started at 8:00 PM at Capital Grill on Brickell Ave. I was quite charming and funny throughout the evening. It is really becoming easier and easier to use conversational jujitsu and kino to seduce women. I kept her talking for three hours and arranged a day 2 for next week.

I am noticing dilated pupils and other IOI’s as well as the telltale body language signals. I “get it” when I am around girls, too. I am learning to be playful and to tease mercilessly every chance I get. It almost seems too easy and I really feel like this girl is beneath my expectations of what kind of woman I want right now. I am more inclined to pass on her and look for someone that has a body that is built for sex, but I will take a chance and try to seduce her anyways.

After she went home, I went by Bricks. It appeared to be happening but I didn’t go inside. Instead I went to Novecento. The best time to arrive is about 9:00 PM and I didn’t get there until about 11:30 PM so I don’t think that I can say for sure whether this is a good place to go on Friday nights until I try it a couple more times.

Back in South Beach I walked from my apartment to Pearl. Inside I was in a tremendous state. I have to give credit to Maniac High’s Statement of Affirmation. Shouting this Statement out loud while listening to techno music put me in such a positive state and on top of this I had been reading “The Blueprint” by Tyler Durden, which is sort of an epiphany for me at the moment.

Back to Pearl…the place was rather empty so I walked slowly about and admired the hotties up on the runway dancing and prancing. I noticed a two set at the bar and I immediately approached. I opened HB8, a black college student from Ft. Lauderdale. I built up some attraction and was getting some great kino back from her in response to my kino. We were having a ball when her cock block girlfriend pulled her away. I said goodbye and walked away.

I have always been afraid of opening blacks because I have had some very rude and humiliating experiences that have conditioned me to stay away and not risk rejection. Since I have decided that I must live outside my comfort zone, I went ahead and tried. Guess what, she liked me. What the hell have I been so afraid of all this time?

I hit on the hired gun bartender at the champagne bar for a bit and then took a place along the bar with the wallflowers. I noticed HB5 giving me the eye from the other side of the runway but I decided that I would not return the favor nor would I reward her with an approach. I have higher standards now, cool. A month or two ago I would have went over and talked to her like the average frustrated chump that I was, no more.

Outside I befriended the doorman who told me that he works the door at Nikki Beach on Sundays and if I needed any help getting in to just ask him next time I see him. Cool.

So I walked over to Prive and went up to the doorman. He started to push me off on Opium and I talked to him for a bit and then he let me go inside Prive. Cool.

Hung out in Prive for a while, then walked around the three clubs a couple of times. I decided to open a seated four set of black girls. (What the hell, right?) I find out that they just flew down from Chicago and they are flying back on Sunday. I stay in set for about fifteen minutes just bullshitting, not really trying to attract, basically practicing my new black girl game.

I tell them that I am going to go mingle and say goodnite. Next I open a three set two UG’s and one HB5. They were pretty faced fat girls, but they were all having a good time and I felt bad for them so I went over to play with them a little bit. I told them that I just had to meet them because they looked like they were having the most fun out of anybody in the whole club. Their faces lit up. I chatted for a minute or two then went to mingle some more.

I opened another black girl three set and got blown out. I just stood there and laughed so that everyone could see that I wasn’t shaken. Then I immediately went and opened a seated white girl three set.

I didn’t bother trying to talk to the whole group because it was way too loud. I just talked to the HB7 on the end. I had some real attraction going when the one in the middle started getting pissy. HB7 told me that the girl in the middle was her girlfriend. So I told her that she had great taste in women and so did her girlfriend. So now HB7 is all smiling with the doggy dinner bowl look and everything when I ask her this, “So, did you always want to be with another girl from way back when you were a little girl?”. HB7 jumps right through my hoop and tells me that it just happened. I can sense it is on and so can her girlfriend. They get up and leave and HB7 is apologizing for it. Cool.

I walked around the club a couple more times and I was about to call it a night at about 2:45 AM. As I am walking out the door I spot a black girl two set in the foyer. So I approach and open. My game is tight, great opener, higher energy, kino, cocky & funny and attraction from HB8.

I bounced them both with me to Mansion. On the taxi cab ride over, HB8 is very close to me. We talk all the way, but I thinking to myself that I am probably being boring. As we get out of the cab in front of Mansion, some black guys try to steal my girls. I keep walking to the door and soon they catch up. HB8 is telling me that the guys back in Indianapolis act the same way and that she is sick and tired of guys like that.

Surprisingly there is a $20 cover charge for me and a $40 cover charge for each of them. ???????????? Well I just met these girls and I am not about to pay their way so they left and I went inside.

Inside I hang like a wallflower for while until HB7 comes over and starts dancing near me. So I jump on it. We are dancing and talking and I am running club game. Cool. Pretty good game too. She is from Manhattan and is an RN. I ask her if she is here alone and she tells me that she is here with her brother. We are dancing and kinoing and flirting for a while, but eventually her brother comes and grabs her and they leave.

I am getting some IOI’s from a couple of black girls directly in front of me in a 5 set of girls. I honestly do not know what it is about this night and me and black girls at this point. I am confused and not all that interested so I ignore the IOI’s.

I left Mansion at about 4:00 AM and walked down to Rustic Pizza. I am outside in line and a gay guy starts asking me what do I think about how short his homo friend cut his blue jeans into shorts and now his ass is hanging out. I told him that his friend should try to do better on the next pair of jeans. This gets the three girls behind me laughing so he starts busting on them. I decide to AMOG the guy just for fun. I tell the girls that this guy isn’t really gay and even though he acts like a flamer he really gets a lot of pussy. The expression of his face tells me that I must have been close to the truth. So I open one of the girls with the Disney princess opener. After that I am flirting with these girls for the next fifteen minutes while we wait for our pizza slices. Too much fun.

On the walk back to my apartment I see HB8.5 walking towards me. So I start to open her about forty feet away instead of waiting until she got closer. I asked her if she was crazy for walking down the street alone at this hour of the night. Then I asked her, “Aren’t you worried?” She said, “No, should I be?” and I laughed and she laughed and then I asked her, “Do you want to be my girlfriend tonight?” and she said “No, Thank You.”.

That was it. All in all, a great night. I hit on every girl I wanted to and even a few that I didn’t. I had a lot of confidence, got a lot of good practice and developed my skill. Use this night as a template for future sarging.



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