Due to the most recent threads going back and forth on this list I
feel the need to remind you guys who we are. Even if you’re
considered a dating coach that still comes second to one thing. You
were and are a pick-up artist first. If you’re still a recovering
AFC that is fine as well because THAT is what this lair is about.
I’m sure Monkee didn’t make this list for people to banter back and
forth and rip into other peoples sticking points so I hope we can
get back on track here.

With that said I’m going to post a method that I use in field and
I’d like active sargers to take a moment and post some of there
ideas and comments on this as well.

The Venue:
The sarge begins right when you enter the venue. If the venue is a
club then you have to remember that everyone in the venue,
especially women are there for one reason in particular. To have
FUN. Clubs are a breeding ground for emotional stimulation to women
for many reasons. They can dress in a way that makes them feel sexy
and the club justifies this behavior. The music being played allows
them to dance which in turn makes them feel sexy and creates
hightened emotion. Think about your how your emotions react when
you’re listening to your favorite song. For me when I hear certain
songs I get a charge of sexual emotions and my state increases. Same
thing is happening to women when they’re at a dance club. They want
to exercise these emotions. Women are at a club to socialize with
there friends. As we all know, women from the time they’re able to
talk and mingle on the playground they’re practicing their social
skills and stimulating each other mentally with conversation.

For the PUA: We need to enter the venue with the same attitude. I’m
here with my friends to have a great time, have a cocktail if I
wish, and enjoy the music. My friends are cool and being with them
makes me feel good. Everyone else at the club is an added bonus
because they’re in my world. Lately I’ve been going out with a
friend that has just rcently moved here from Scotland and has a lot
of natural game but most importantly the two of us always have a
good time when we go out because we stimulate each other with great
conversation, we’re laughing non-stop, and we generally dont give a
fuck about whats going on around us. You want to have this kind of
relationship with your wing because it breeds success. Why? Because
when we’re having fun we begin to naturally show how comfortable we
are, our energy is high and addictive to the people around us, and
we’re laughing so much that its hard not to notice. Our having a
good time is attractive to women because GIRLS JUST WANT TO HAVE FUN.

Open the room: You’ve already entered the venue with high energy,
laughing with your wing, possibly grabbed yourself a drink and now
its time to open the room. With good body language start talking
with random people a little bit. If a couple that you know is
together is standing next to you, cheers them and tell them how cute
they look together. Do it with a big smile on your face. If you see
a group of guys standing around, ask them if they cought the end of
xyz game and who one. It doesn’t really matter what it is you talk
to these people about just as long as it holds value, you
demonstrate your alpha male traits etc. The reason you’re doing this
is whats key and thats to desplay that you’re a social guy out
having a good time. With opening the room you’re getting people
involved in your world and it prevents being the guy that only talks
to girls to pick them up. Women pay attention to this kind of shit.
You guys that are at venues with other PUAs have the advantage to
open them as well, say something like, “what’s up man, hey I’m
grabbing a drink for so and so, I’ll come back and chat with you in
a minute, It’s great to see you.” It’s a great way to work the room.
Rule: If the PUA is isolation, DONT APPROACH HIM TO DHV YOURSELF!
Many good sets have been fucked up that way so make a mental note to
yourself NOT to do this.

The Approach: There is a number of different tactics to approaching
women so its up to the PUA to determine which approach is better
suited according to the logistics of the set. Try and post up in an
area where a lot of HBs are posting up as well (it helps for
logistics) RULE- He who opens the set, owns the set. That is why I
like to be the one to open all my sets so I have my pick. Many times
I’ve opened sets and before I’ve chosen my target another PUA will
get greedy and work the set in his favor. Always ask the person who
opened the set who’s the target. There have been times I’ve opened
into large social circles that can become a shoe in for future LTR’s
and then I introduce a fellow PUA and he’s gone in before asking and
taken girls from my set. I’m not mad about this because I’ll always
open more sets, but be respectfull otherwise that fellow PUA wont
invite you into sets anymore and just because of one lay could cost
you ten. If You make a mistake, make it up to him. Open a set and
give him his pick. There will always be another set.

So, You’ve got an opener picked out and you’ve already dispayed
you’re a social guy by opening the room so it wont be a complete
shock that you’re going to talk to your set. They’re in good range
to display good body language because you’ve posted up in an area
that allows better logistics. I like situational openers that kind
of having an opinion opener touch to them. Here’s a demonstration of
one I’ve been using.
(Like I said, the wing I’ve been running with is Scotish and his
acsent is money)
Me: Do you consider an acsent attractive?
(If you’ve displayed value correctly around the venue, and you
entered the set with good body language and good energy, the set
will seem excited that you’re talking to them)
HB: Yeah!
Me: Have you met the coolest guy in the room yet?
(Credited Diesel)
HB: You?
Me: (laughing) No, come here and meet my friend.
I intro my wing.

I want her to chase me now:
Now that we’re in set, we’re building attraction with the group and
now I want to flip the tables on my target to start chasing me. I
bait her into saying something I could misinturpret what she said.
(This is really easy and she’ll pretty much do it naturally once
you’re in set for about 3-5 minutes.) I’ll bust on her by saying
something like “oh my god you’re so bad, stop it you’re going to
make me blush!” I want to play it like I’m cute and innocent. She’ll
be really reactive to me at this point and will probably start
blushing herself. I’m making her emotions escalate reaaly rapidly
with fun comments like this and she wants it to conitnue going so
she’ll be gaming you at this point. I try and find a way to throw in
that I’m not her type (which I’ve posted about in recent threads)
and she’ll continue to chase me to show that I am. Just keep in
mind, what you want to get is her chasing you. TD has many rutines
to do this as well so I suggest you read them and use them until you
develope your own tricks.

Isolation: Now that I have her chasing me she’ll be totally
receptive to isolation. I’ll usually be just about finished with my
drink at this point so all I have do is say “I’m going to go grab
another drink” walk a little past my target and put my arm out for
her to grab it. Her friends will be fine with it because they
understand she’s chasing me so she has her oppurtunity now to be
with me alone. Build rapport now with simple talk. Find things you
relate to, and let your body language do the talking in a sexual
manner with facial expressions and kino. When you return to the set,
the two of you are together now and everyone will realize this
perfectly clearly now because you should be arm in arm, giggling
together and enjoying each others company.

Bouncing locations our sticking in there to set up the Day2:
You have two choices. Bouncing the set our continueing building
rapport and getting the number. If you bounce the set you pretty
much suggest the idea to the group just like you would with your
friends you’ve known for a while, if they’re up for it’s time to go.
If not stick in there a little while, plan a day 2 with her and
she’ll suggest giving you her number, you wont have to ask for it. I
dont recommend going around and opening other sets. If you wanted
another set you should have opened them instead because once you’re
in the set this long it would be working backwards to eject it.

Conclusion: I work most of my sets this way and have had great
success with it. I’m sure I’ve left out many details so if you have
any questions/suggestio ns feel free to post them.