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{October 4, 2007}   ATTITUDES

ATTITUDES – Sets the frame that you have higher value than her
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1. You have my permission / I approve
2. Some people take pictures – other people are in pictures
3. You are the cool guy – she is the dorky girl
4. You owe me $50 bucks for making me look good in front of all
these people
5. Give yourself a gold star
6. I usually charge for that
7. You are in my reality – You are in my world
8. Back to me – Me is my Favorite Topic
9. I’m the star – DONT give me compliments
10. I’m not sure you can keep up with me

SAY EXACTLY WHATS ON YOUR MIND AND BE FUN

Eye contact
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Give strong eye contact initially, then if theirs fade, look
slightly away and increase tone, then when she re-initiates, resume
eye-contact

FIVE DISQUALIFIERS
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I’m gonna have to break up with you – You can keep the cat
You are so losing me
You are so in the friend zone
You’re really sensitive on the inside
That’s a deal breaker

After she gives you a compliment
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Don’t start liking me. Okay .. what else have you noticed about me!

Mood Lifters
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1. You are such a ball of energy. I would totally crush you into a
powder and make a vitamin out of you – it would be a great pick me up
2. I’m looking into your eyes right now and I’m thinking about how
I’m going to break up with you 6 months from now

Things to create Intrigue
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1. The 6 Senses – Talk about adventures, music, food, and touch,
using the word LIKE to compare and contrast
2. You have an honest face, but I can’t tell you
3. BE VAGUE on some things and yet BE DESCRIPTIVE on others

BUILD ATTRACTION
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Stop looking at me like that
You’re a stranger – I don’t even know you
Take away on a high note and come back
I’ll tell you in a minute
Your eyes tell the full story – don’t they. You have a story in your
eyes which I wouldn’t mind exploring



et cetera